They Drive Me Crazy

They were so NOT creative when naming their children. The # of Irish families with children named Mary, John, Patrick, Margaret, and Michael makes searching for them often impossible. Good luck finding the right John Driscoll from Cork Ireland in 1840 – there are only 100 of them to consider.
They can’t add. Every single record from their past has a different year of birth. Sometimes they get younger. It’s quite maddening. How is it possible that my gg grandfather was the same age in the 1850 census as he was in his 1848 passenger ship record? Aaah, what’s a couple years??
Sadly, the Irish Catholics were seriously discriminated against in the 1800’s. Many US and Ireland records were sporadic because townspeople didn’t bother to record their vitals.
Their poverty was epic. The Irish Potato Famine of the 1840’s took the lives of a large number of our ancestors. How heartbreaking for a mother to lose half her family, like my great-great grandmother, who lost 5 of her 10 kids.
The food is all about Potatoes. My diet makes me think I am Italian.

Yet I Love them So Much

They had a tradition of naming their first-born son after the paternal grandfather and the 2^nd born son after the maternal grandfather. This has been a huge help in figuring out the correct families. For example, my gg grandfather was John O’Connor. His first-born son was David, who died 5 years later. Then he named his next son David. That was my clue to know his father was David. This led me to find 3 of John’s brothers in Massachusetts – all with first-born sons named David. Currently, we have 10 David O’Connor’s in our tree just from this one branch.
They were extremely loyal. Family and friends lived together in packs making it very easy to locate loved ones. Either by living in the same house or as next-door neighbors. Fast forward to today. Who wants to live next to their family? Anybody????
Their bravery makes us proud. They ultimately survived the Potato Famine, and crossed the ocean as stowage, all for the sake of finding a better life for their families, including me.
Their religious conviction leaves something to be desired in the 21^st century. That left us with a wealth of church records to hunt for including baptisms, marriages and burials. Baptism records identify sponsors. Sponsors were usually siblings, and siblings help us connect the dots to the correct family.
They gave us beautiful redheads, porcelain skin, green eyes and lots o’luck. For that, we thank you!!